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The Purpose of Addiction

Addiction is a form of personal management that numbs an individual’s emotional discomfort. Addictions serve a purpose; they medicate emotions. On the most part, addictions are usually developed when a person is unable to heal from some form of pain and suffering. It is usually people who have experienced a traumatic event who turn to addiction as a means of taking unpleasant feelings away. Unfortunately, when addictions numb out the feelings that make us feel bad, they also block out the feelings that make us feel good, including feelings of love.

Love is sorely missed in this world; it’s the lack of love that creates a sense of separation in us from the rest of the world. With the level of pain and suffering we are witnessing in North America today, is it any wonder that so many people are medicating and choosing addiction as a way to cope with their emotional pain?

Addictions are a ‘not so healthy’ way of coping where the individual numbs out their emotions with compulsive behavior or by altering their mood through chemical use such as drugs, alcohol, or both.

There are better ways than addiction to cope. Going for walks, spending time in nature, making art, writing, drawing, carpentry work, spending time with loved ones are all forms of creative expression, are good for us, and are a more positive way to express our feelings.

More and more people are recognizing the power of our emotional well-being. The goal of overcoming addictions is to be able to feel our feelings again; to feel feelings that were too painful to acknowledge in the past, and to make room for emotions that leave us feeling more positive in the present and future. I am not referring to getting over a feeling, but the ability to feel the feeling, release it, and move forward; of being able to enjoy your life while experiencing your emotions. To flow with your emotions, to let them come, stay with you and leave when you no longer feel it. It is how you manage your energy and your emotional states, including love. Love is inside of us waiting for us to bring it to life again. It is often by denying ourselves the feeling of love and connection that throws our energy into addictive patterns and that can have a negative spiraling effect on us.

In Power versus Force, Dr. David Hawkins wrote about conscious states of being. It’s the lower states of consciousness that we are trying to avoid with addiction. Based on his findings, I place addictions right in the middle on the scale of: Shame, guilt, fear, anger, addiction, awareness, love, consciousness and enlightenment. The same scale can be applied to our emotions.

Addictions are nothing to be ashamed of.  Addictions are used until a more positive way to process emotions can be found. A lot of what is referred to as mental illness describes the frontal cortex of the brain as being smaller or less developed than other parts of the brain. Our frontal cortex is where we process our emotions and our intuition. Is it really surprising that those parts of our brains don’t develop fully or shut down after experiencing pain, suffering or abuse?

It’s by identifying the purpose of addiction and by understanding its true nature that we can find ways to move away from it. Addictions need to be understood, as numbing out our feelings can cause problems in our present day lives and in our ability to relate to others.

If you aren’t used to feeling your emotions, they can seem elusive at times, but over time, it will feel more natural.  It takes time to allow yourself to feel your emotions, but with practice and perseverance it will happen.

If addiction is present in your life, perhaps now is the time to pull away from them and get back into the game of love and life.

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  2. Hi everyone! Lately I have been fighting with a lot of personal issues. Friends and doctors keep telling me I should consider taking meds, so I may as well and see how it goes. Problem is, I haven’t taken it for a while, and don’t wanna get back to it, we’ll see how it goes.

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